Change is the law of life.And those who look only to the past orthe present are certain to miss the future.变化是生活的法则.只盯着过去或眼前的人注定失去未来这句名言的详细讲解和范例

Change is the law of life.And those who look only to the past orthe present are certain to miss the future.变化是生活的法则.只盯着过去或眼前的人注定失去未来这句名言的详细讲解和范例
Change is the law of life.And those who look only to the past or
the present are certain to miss the future.
变化是生活的法则.只盯着过去或眼前的人注定失去未来
这句名言的详细讲解和范例

Change is the law of life.And those who look only to the past orthe present are certain to miss the future.变化是生活的法则.只盯着过去或眼前的人注定失去未来这句名言的详细讲解和范例
“改变人生的法则.和那些只看过去和现在的某些错过未来.”

国立成功大学肯尼迪



过去似乎很安全.由于它的本性,过去的已经过去了,我们知道我们已经活了下来.它使我们幸福的美好时光,想保住特别的回忆.亲爱的,记住所有接触和珍贵.但过去很安全吗?它是真的一样,我们记得吗?



昨晚我把这个建议不逃离过去,面对它,并试图从中学到很多东西.我遇见了过去(痛苦).我想做的一件事,我真的学到就是可能过去只是想留在那里.我们应该记住的东西使我们快乐的事情让我们忘记哭泣.为什么哭的再次发生的事了吗?



因此,进一步说明,我遇见了我,我没有布兰德在大约一年半的时间,因为昨晚喝酒.很奇怪,但感觉就像我们刚刚老朋友跟上来喝一杯.我没有感觉到渴望嫁给这个人,我只是喜欢他的陪伴.如实我们讨论了从过去,我们的家庭,我们的工作,我们的生活….这就是我可能有麻烦…我们的生活,理解彼此.没有更多的“我们”在这段关系中了.只有在过去.



他走出国门,来为业务.最近几次他进城时,我没有见到他,但这一次,我交给我的好奇心.我知道我不应该看他,但是我真的很想看看他看上去和他是怎样做的.他看起来一样,他说我真的看起来一样好.这就是难以奏效.我们都看,有几乎同样的事情发生在我们的生命,但我们并不是一个部分的其他的生活了.感觉好打开,让他知道我又….毕竟,他是我最好的朋友为5年.他知道更多关于我比任何人在我生命中曾有感觉良好,不需要解释某些事情背后的意义.他已经知道的.



晚上没有困难时,它实际上是相当令人耳目一新的镇静都知道我们会说话和笑,喜欢彼此在一起的感觉.我真的觉得自己仿佛是通过的伤害和痛苦,这一切.我没有情绪或紧贴,我也没有感到任何真正的欲望.我没有哭.《再见是一个漫长的拥抱和良好的ole澳洲“欢呼,大耳朵.”没有问题!



直到今天早上……看到他drudged大量的情感,我推着内心深处很长一段时间.我不想念他,但他主张.我想念规划未来的某人.我错过了期待和那人的一生,我爱上了我所有的心.我想念下班回家,并能放松在对方面前.我本来要嫁给这个男人和他今后共度一生的他.一个女孩结婚的那天是计划的时间从她说话.你想要成为一位公主.你不希望梦想粉碎的两个月前因另一个女人.奇怪的是,我还不能恨他.我想要快乐,我想他是快乐的.如果不是彼此,比其他人(虽然不是与“她”)我知道我们不是命中注定的,其实我真的爱我的人生,即使他并不在里面.我花了些时间来接受,但我所做的.



所以,我今天作为个人卫生.我需要我的过去和今天的悼念意识到我高兴我身在何处.我错过了很多关于两性关系上,但是我知道这一天会再来.如果我能嫁给这个男人,有这么多,我的生活发生在过去的三年里,我就会错过了.我确实很想念规划和某人,但现在,我正在计划未来.



黎明都会欣赏这个….

我是一个多汁,野生的女人,要“活、富丽,很少,并沉溺于普通的和不寻常的时刻.”



虽然我面对我的过去,我不希望抓住它.我将记住它,并意识到这是结束了,我有我的未来,我不想错过.谢谢你对我的爱与支持的朋友帮我收拾残局的坏了.



我将接受过去的就让它过去吧,不要担心我曾经….



“代替思考你所住的地方,想一想你想成为"

-Diana兰金

"Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future."
J.F. Kennedy

The past seems very safe. Due to its nature, the past is behind...

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"Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future."
J.F. Kennedy

The past seems very safe. Due to its nature, the past is behind us and we know we have survived. It makes us happy to think about good times and hold onto special memories. Everything remembered is dear, touching, and precious. But is the past really safe? Is it really as good as we remember?

Last night I took the advice of not running away from the past, facing it and trying to learn from it. I met the past (and the pain) head on. And I think the one thing that I really learned was that maybe the past is just meant to stay there. We are supposed to remember the things that make us happy forget the things that made us cry. Why cry again over something that happened already?

So, to further explain, I met my ex-fiancé, whom I have not seen in about a year and a half, for a drink last night. It was very strange at first but it felt like we were just old friends catching up for a drink. I did not feel the desire to marry this man and I truthfully just enjoyed his company. We talked about things from the past, our families, our jobs and our lives…. this is where I may have had some trouble comprehending… our lives with out each other. There is no more "our" in this relationship anymore. Only what was in the past.

He lives out of the country and comes here for business every now and again. The most recent times he came into town, I did not see him, though this time, I gave into my curiosities. Part of me knew that I should not see him, but part of me really wanted to see how he looked and how he was doing. He looked the same really and he said that I looked the same as well. That is what made it hard to work out. We both looked the same and have most of the same things happening in our lives, but we are not a part of the other's life anymore. It felt good to open up and let him know what I was up to again…. After all, he was my best friend for five years. He knows more about me than any person in my life ever has and it felt good to not have to explain the meaning behind certain things. He already knew.

The evening was not difficult at all, it was actually quite refreshing and calming knowing that we could talk and smile and enjoy each other's company. I really felt as though I was passed the hurt and pain of it all. I was not emotional or clingy, nor did I feel any real desire to be. I didn't cry. The goodbye was a long hug and a good ole Aussie "Cheers, Big Ears." No problems at all!

Until this morning….. Seeing him drudged up a lot of emotions that I pushed deep down inside for a long while. I do not miss him, but what he stood for. I miss planning for a future with someone. I miss looking forward to a life spent with that person that I love with all of my heart. I miss coming home from work and being able to just relax in each other's presence. I was supposed to marry this man and spend the rest of my life with him. A girl's wedding day is planned from the time she is old enough to talk. You want to be a princess. You do not want that dream crushed two months before the event due to another woman. Funny thing is that I still can not hate him. I want to be happy and I want him to be happy. If not with each other, than with someone else (though not with "her") I know we are not meant to be and I actually really love my life even though he is not in it. It took me awhile to accept that but I do.

So, I took today as a personal health day. I needed today to mourn my past and realize that I am happy where I am. I miss so many things about being in a relationship, but I know it will come again one day. If I would have married this man, there is so much of my life that happened in the past three years that I would have missed out on. I do miss planning a life with someone, but as for right now, I am planning a future for myself.

Dawn will appreciate this….
I am a succulent, wild woman that wants to "live fully, richly, rarely and revel in ordinary and extraordinary moments."

Though I faced my past, I do not wish to hold on to it. I will remember it and realize that it is over and I have a future ahead of me, that I wish not to miss out on. Thank you to my loving and supportive friends for helping me pick up the pieces of whatever was broken.

I will accept the past as the past and not worry about where I once was….

"Instead of thinking about where you are, think about where you want to be"
-Diana Rankin

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